It's Official: We are Grown-ups!!!

So we bought a house! (Almost)

We signed some paperwork today, put down some good faith money, and we will be in touch with the mortgage broker first thing in the morning. We do know that our builder will get the sale closed and us moved in before November 28 (2 days shy of the Nov 30th deadline for the $8000 tax credit). It was a toss up between 2 homes (same neighborhood) but we're glad we went with this. Stressful thinking that we will have debt (aka Mortgage) but we know it's okay to have a mortgage. I'm a grown-up now!

Our beautiful front yard (j/k). They will put in landscaping before we move in.

The front.

Our living room, facing the front door.

Our living room facing our kitchen and formal dining area. We will use our formal dining area as a play area/computer area.

Our beautiful Kitchen! I have real tile floors...NO MORE LINOLEUM! I also have corian counter tops (I previously said I had granite, but I was mistaken. I obviously have a few things to learn about houses) with a tile back splash, and solid Maple cabinets. I know I'm bragging, but it's not every day you sign on a house! I also have a nice sized pantry to the right.

Here are the details...

3 bedroom, 2 bath

approx 1450 sq ft.

the bedrooms are a decent size, plenty of room for the kids.

Covered front porch

Covered back patio

2 car garage

laundry room

2 walk-in closets

2 pantries (1 in kitchen, 1 in laundry room)

Super energy efficient home

10 year frame/foundation warranty

2 year heating/cooling price cap guarantee (if our heating or cooling bill ever exceeds $61 in the next 2 years, they pay the difference...we have that in writing!)

www.ideal-homes.com

It's the Foxtail-B plan in the Wildflower subdivision of Moore.

Some of you may know, we're not very happy with our children's current school, so this is primarily what has prompted this move. Their new school is excellent! We feel that this will be a positive change in all aspects of our family life. Hopefully it will go well!

Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch

We were supposed to be on vacation these past 2 weeks, but it was postponed due to reasons beyond our control. We're sad about it, but we decided to use our free time by exploring the local area a little bit. We drove about 40 minute out from the base and headed north to Arcadia.

It was love at first sight!

The country roads, beautiful fall colors, lakes, and old farmhouses just mesmerized us! We had so much fun, our only regret is that we didn't go sooner.

Partial family picture (the other kids we off playing).

Another partial family pic...we just completed the corn maze. This was the bridge at the end.

All the kids were able to ride a Shetland pony. They loved it of course!

Luke's first pumpkin.

Jack probably had the most fun!

So we've had a lot of life changes this week and it all started with coming to this pumpkin patch. While we were on the hay ride we met a wonderful LDS family (that's not very common here in Bible Belt, not because of the lack of quality LDS people, but because of the lack of quantity.) Anyway, they were from Edmond (the next city over) and one thing led to another and Howard and I got to talking about moving to Edmond. That was Friday.

All day Saturday we talked about moving off base and all the pros and cons. After researching prices, crime, schools, and things like that we decided to consider Moore (which is south of OKC). Moore is considerably cheaper but with all the nice things still.

Since Sunday morning was Jack's birthday we decided to sleep in, let Jack enjoy his birthday morning and visit a Moore Ward in the afternoon. Turned out the ward we visited had 2 Realtors, 1 in the Bishopric.

Monday we met with Bill Vawter (the Bishopric member) and we went house hunting in Moore with him. On the afternoon of the first day, Bill took us just South of Moore to a small affordable neighborhood. If you drive one way 5 minutes you have all the shopping you need. If you drive a different direction 5 minutes you're in the rich area, and if you drive another 5 minutes in the opposite direction you're in the country. It's the best of both worlds.

It is so beautiful! Country roads, beautiful trees...the works!

Today is Wednesday and we signed a buyers agreement this evening for our NEW home!!!

Happy 3rd Birthday Jack!

Every birthday we celebrate we allow the kids to open their presents from us first thing in the morning. It's kind of like Christmas morning for the birthday kid. Luke really enjoyed the birthday festivities too! We had to make sure he didn't eat the wrapping paper.

We were really happy that Jack enjoyed his presents so much.

He loves dinosaurs, so he received several dinosaur books and coloring books. We also got a preschool age R/C car and an electric triceratops. It was a fun morning.

This evening after church we had our good friends, the Gardner's, over for dinner and birthday festivities. Here's Jack taking the first hit at his pinata. All the kids had a turn and then the Dad's finally beat it open for them.

Jack asked for a dinosaur cake and that's what he got!

I made it on Saturday and I'm really happy it turned out well since cake decorating is not a strong suit of mine.

When we sang Happy Birthday to Jack, he sang right along with us, he knew all the words. It was so cute!!!!

Now that Jack is 3 here are some facts about him...

~He loves dinosaurs

~He's good at coloring

~He's potty trained

~He's almost done taking naps (some days are better than others)

~His speech has improved a lot and he's speaking more clearly

~He expresses his thoughts to us

~He has a wonderful imagination

~He's very active

~He's a good big/little brother

~He's a big helper

Miracles Do Happen!

This is what I found in my shoe this morning after my water aerobics workout. At first I thought it was a piece of glass, then I thought that it was my cheapo CZ earrings falling apart. I tossed is into my bag and I'd worry about my earrings later I thought to myself.

Turned out to be neither, but the real thing...my diamond from my wedding ring!

I noticed that my diamond was missing from my ring a few minutes later while I was doing my makeup in the locker room. I quickly searched my gym bag and found the diamond. I put it in my wallet for safe keeping.

There are so many what ifs!

What if it had been lost in the pool?

The shower?

Anywhere else but my shoe?

I know this may be small, but I feel very blessed today to have received a miracle such as having my diamond fall into my shoe and that I noticed it!

Live and Learn

While Howard was away, I struggled as a mother, wife and woman. BUT I also grew and came out a better person because of it. I hope I made the most of my time while we were apart. There are definitely things that I would have done differently, and a few moments that I'm not proud of, but my kids still love me and I still love them. We survived!!!

Here's a re-cap of my journey since June

Life Moments

2 missed birthdays (Howard 32 , Erin 6)

2 missed anniversaries ( 9 year Wedding, 8 year Temple)

1 broken arm (the tip of Erin's radius to be more specific)

1 dead car battery (my neighbor was my knight in shining armor that day)

1 potty trained boy

1 crawling baby (Howard missed half of Luke's life! He left when he was barely 4 months and came back at 8 months.)

2 tooth fairy visits (Howie and Erin)

2 new baby teeth (Luke's first and second)

2 parent/teacher conferences

3 fundraisers (I boycotted one of them)

1 zoo trip

3 museum trips

1 road trip (2 if you count each way)

2 rooms painted

1 whole house unpacked

3 sets of curtains hung

1 whole bedroom set assembled (bed, trundle, dresser, and nightstand all by myself!)

10 lbs of baby weight lost!!!!

a couple days of "The Office" marathon. (I watched every episode in about 2 weeks. It's my new favorite show.)

too many late nights

We've learned a lot too

piano lessons (we started with 3 students and are now down to 2, Howie and I are left.)

swim lessons

Girl Scouts

Cub Scouts

water aerobics at the YMCA (I'm the youngest one in the class)

Homecoming and Random Pictures

Sorry, I know it has been a while since my last post. Howard is finally home! Yeah!! He arrived home early Wednesday morning on October 7th. I was a little disappointed on how it all turned out since I had been daydreaming of our homecoming for 3 months and 3 weeks. It was 7:30am and I was in the shower, the kids were in my bedroom watching a cartoon on the computer. Then I hear shouts of "Daddy, you're home!" through the bathroom door. I finish up and grab a towel and say hi to Howard. (All the kids were there in the room, so keep your minds out of the gutter!) I went back in the bathroom and got dressed while the kids loved on Howard. I had him get them breakfast while I got ready for the day. It was a nice break, but weird at the same time. I was disappointed that I couldn't see the look on the kids faces when he returned or even take pictures of it, but in the end he was home safe and that's all that really matters. We kept the kids home from school that day and had some much needed family time. Unfortunately Howard had to report to work the very next day, no comp time or anything! I wasn't very happy about that! So that's what we have been doing....Howard works and I'm home with the kids as usual. The past 2 weekends we've been super busy with projects around the house that I was not able to complete while Howard was away and also Scouting activities for Howie. Also, the kids have all been terribly sick on and off for the past 2 weeks. It's been rough!!!

Life seems to be getting into a routine and better slowly, but I would like to share a little secret with everyone. Military homecomings are not all they're cracked up to be. Everyone asked me, "Isn't it so great that he's back?" ... honestly NO (at first anyway). I thought it would be great, but the past week and a half have not been easy on our family. There have been a lot of changes and emotions for everyone involved. At first it felt like I had to put on a fake smile, because it would make me a bad wife if I actually thought that I wanted him to go back to where he came from. Now, after talking with some of my more experienced friends (with regards to military separations) our roller coaster ride of emotions are normal. So next time your friend's spouse returns from a long TDY or deployment, don't assume everything is all roses. Just be there if they need someone to talk to. I can honestly say now that Howard and I (and the kids) are all doing well and our family love and unity have returned. (Thank goodness!)

Here are some random pictures taken the week before Howard returned home (except for the very last picture).

Howie's happy because he's earning money!

Erin climbed our backyard tree all by herself!

When the weather is nice, Jack can be found outside in the sandbox with his dinosaurs!

When the weather is not so nice, he's inside coloring his dinosaur "homework" as he calls it.

The children's morning chore consists of them all putting away the clean dishes. Howie and Erin put away the cups and dishes, and Jack just started putting away the silverware. Looks like Luke wanted in on the action too!

This was taken today. Luke enjoys looking out our living room window at the tree outside. He's starting to pull himself up and he can crawl anywhere. He does laps around the house. It's just so cute.

One more thing...

You know you're raising a military brat when your 7 year old tells you that the baby needs a haircut because his hair is touching his ears!

Fundraisers

It is fundraiser season at our house currently and I have VERY mixed feelings about it. It seems as though it is a necessary evil that I must submit my child to if they want to participate in wholesome activities such as Cub Scouts and Girl Scouts. The fundraising helps our family by lowering the monthly dues that we will owe each month for these programs. This will be Howie's 2nd year in Cub Scouts and Erin's 1st in Girl Scouts. They are both having fundraisers going on (simultaneously) and if you are at all interested in helping out here are the links....

Cub Scouts

(To the right of the screen there is a place to put in Howie's scout ID number so that he can receive credit. It says " You are supporting no one. Change." Click on Change and you can enter Howie's number. His number is 3083651)

Howie is selling popcorn and nuts. The items are a little pricey, but the popcorn is GREAT and 70% of the proceeds go directly back into the local Scouting program! They also accept cash donations. (until October 16th)

Girl Scouts

Erin is selling magazines, CD's, and candies. Erin's fundraiser has MANY affordable items to choose from. 40% of the proceeds go to the local Girls Scouts. (until October 25th)

Since we live on base we are prohibited from selling door to door. I have determined that fundraising is very hard for a newly transplanted military family. We have not yet established ties to the community (especially with Howard being gone I'm in survival mode...not make a million friends mode). So that is why have have sent out emails, facebook posts, and now this blog. Sorry if it is bothersome, but I have to at least try for my children's sake.